Tips for Talking to Teens 1. Find a quiet, private place to talk. 2. Be honest about feeling uncomfortable with the conversation. 3. Ask questions sparingly - avoid an interrogation. 4. Do not allow interruptions.  Show your teen that the conversation takes priority. 5. Ask your teen how they define sex and virginity. 6. Avoid preaching. Your teen will develop their own beliefs and values through your modeling, integrity and instruction over time. 7. Make your values clear. Tell your teen how you feel about sex and relationships. 8. Be clear about your expectations and encourage them to come to you if they ever struggle to meet those expectations. 9. Tell your teen that they can use you as an excuse not to engage in certain activities. 10. Apologize if, in the past, you have not been clear about your expectations, have not exhibited integrity yourself, or have been quiet about the issue. 11. Be prepared to answer some tough questions. 12. Most importantly, be sincere in wanting to listen to learn.

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